Pay your proper tithe amount for years, even for decades, like my Mother did and what can you expect in return? Nothing.
I spent an incredibly frustrating 4 hours today trying to get hold of a priest to come and give my Mother the last rites. She is dying. Unfortunately, she forgot to schedule the event ahead of time with a priest of her choice so that she could have the supposed comfort of a member of the clergy there at her bedside, while she lay struggling for breath. We're talking a woman here who was a faithful member of the collection-envelope-filling congregation for decades, and yet today, when we tried to get a priest, we found out that she was simply shit out of luck, as far as three parishes in North York were concerned. She had been a member of Saint Paschal Baylon parish since its inception and only ceased her faithful attendance when she was moved to a nursing home. When I called there, all I got was a recording. I tried Saint Gabriel parish, on Sheppard Avenue East next. Although I got through to alive person there, the message was they would "try to reach Father Paul" and ask him to call me back. I made that request at 11:30 a.m. but never ever got a call back even though I called there twice more to ask if anyone had been able to reach the man. The last time I called I was told to try another parish. End of their concern, obviously, with a soul in need of clerical solace. Then I tried St. Wilfrid parish, on Finch Avenue West. All I got there was a recording giving the times and languages for masses to be said on New Year's Day.
Finally, in desperation, I called the Good Shepherd parish on Simonston Blvd, in Thornhill. I left an irate message there saying we had been trying by then for four hours to reach a priest for my Mother, who I said had been dutifully filling collection envelopes for decades. Within minutes I had a return call from Father Weber, and in no time at all, he was walking into my Mother's room. He, at least, has the correct idea of what duties a priest is supposed to be available to fulfill. He said to us that going to meet your God is the most important time in a christian's life, and that he was always glad to be able to help anyone at that time. He poured a little oil on the waters of my resentment for those other absent clerics, but not enough to make me forget that apparently their idea of helping at such a time means the parishioner must book a time ahead and then be bloody sure to knock off at precisely that time, or be ready to find themselves shit out of luck when they call for a priest.
1 comments:
um....i think this is a rant...right?
because i know that's not true...at least not for us.
my momma died too...about a month before my 14th birthday...
right before i graduated.im gonna be 15 this may...and ill turn 15 on mothers day.it was always a special day for us two...
i am really sorry for your loss...
and i can totally understand how your pissed off.
im not catholic,and i dont know if that really makes any difference...but i know that our pastor was over at our house as much as possible and praying for my mom.
and we couldnt always afford to pay tithes...and maybe the preists were with other patients?
praying for them?
i don't know...but i do think that there aren't enough kind pastors...
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